Why I Wrote 'Unbothered' - And Why Every Single Woman Needs This Book
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Hey Gorgeous,
I've been holding onto something big, and I'm finally ready to share it with you. After two years of writing, revising, and pouring my heart onto paper, my book "Unbothered: The Single Woman's Guide to Building Wealth, Finding Purpose, and Creating the Life You Want" is finally here!
This Book Was Born From a Revolution
Six years ago, I thought my life was ending when my marriage ended. I was 31, starting over, and drowning in shame. Not just the personal shame of a relationship that didn't work out, but the cultural shame that hits different when you're a single woman—especially a single Black woman.
You know the conversations I'm talking about. The family gatherings where well-meaning relatives ask when you're going to "find somebody." The assumptions that something must be wrong with you if you can't "keep a man." The pressure to settle because your "biological clock is ticking."
But here's what I discovered in those six years: Being single isn't a problem to solve—it's a superpower to leverage.
The Numbers Don't Lie
Did you know that single women are:
- The fastest-growing group of home buyers (53% of all single-person purchases)
- Starting businesses at 6 times the rate of white women
- Contributing $2.4 trillion annually to the U.S. economy
- More likely to have advanced degrees than any other demographic
But We Need Our Own Playbook
Here's the problem: Most advice isn't written for us. Financial guidance assumes you have a partner to split expenses with. Career advice doesn't address the unique advantages of being single. Relationship advice focuses on finding someone rather than thriving while you're looking (or choosing not to look).
That's why I wrote "Unbothered."
What Makes This Book Different
This isn't another "love yourself first" book (though self-love is important!). This is a strategic guide for:
✨ Building wealth using my proven EMPIRE method—multiple income streams that actually work ✨ Leveraging your singleness for career acceleration and professional success ✨ Creating chosen family that supports and celebrates your authentic self
✨ Dating with standards when you're ready (and being completely okay if you're not) ✨ Navigating family pressure and cultural expectations with grace and boundaries ✨ Escaping the "Strong Woman" trap that keeps successful women isolated
This Book Is For You If:
- You're tired of being asked when you're going to "settle down"
- You want practical strategies for building wealth and success on your terms
- You're ready to stop apologizing for your standards and achievements
- You need guidance that addresses the real challenges single women face
- You're part of the single woman revolution (whether you realize it or not)
Your Investment in Your Future
I could have written another generic self-help book, but single women deserve better. We deserve a guide that acknowledges our unique challenges and celebrates our incredible power.
"Unbothered" is that guide.
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What Readers Are Already Saying:
"Finally! A book that treats my single life as an opportunity, not a problem to fix." - Sarah M.
"The financial strategies alone are worth the price. I wish I'd had this book 10 years ago." - Jessica L.
"Tasheena gets it. Every page felt like a conversation with a wise friend." - Maria R.
A Personal Note
Writing this book was scary. I had to be vulnerable about my divorce, my mistakes, my struggles with family pressure, and my journey to loving my single life. But I knew if my story could help even one woman feel less alone and more empowered, it was worth it.
If you've been waiting for permission to live your life on your own terms, consider this your official invitation. Your unbothered era starts now.
Ready to join the revolution?
Order "Unbothered" on Amazon today →
Available in Kindle
With love and unbothered energy,
Tasheena
5 comments
Just finished reading “Unbothered” and it’s a game-changer. The author nails why every woman needs this mindset, especially when handling challenges like Home Financing. It blends confidence with practical advice. Highly recommend it for anyone looking to stay unbothered while navigating life and finances.
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