Simply Tasheena: 2020

Pretty much everything on my list from last year carried over to this year. A lot of my goals are the same, because though I did stay on task with a lot of my goals. I want to continue to do so. It's so easy to lose focus with a goal, especially when you feel that it has become a habit.

Do you have any goals for this year?

21 things that I want to Start, Stop, and Splurge On

Read More- Towards the middle of last year, I found an app that I loved. It really has kept me on task with my reading goals. However, it's still very important for me to read and implement what I've learned. 

Date Myself- I started off the year strong last year by dating myself. I have to get back on track with this. My goal is to take myself on a date as often as possible. 

Stop buying just to buy! - Though I still struggle with this. I'm getting better with buying just to buy, especially in the food department. There's no need for me to stock up as much as I do especially when I'm at the grocery store at least once a week. 

Treat me- I still struggle at a time when it comes to buying myself stuff. I have to work on this. However, I'm looking forward to treating myself. 

DSLR- (Learn how to shoot in manual mode) - Towards the end of last year I purchased a new iPhone. Trust me, my old phone was three or four years old, and the battery life was horrible. With that being said. I reach for my phone now which is to be expected. However, it still can not produce the product of a DSLR camera. I still have so much to learn when it comes to my camera. 

Nails Done- To be honest, I really just need more non-toxic nail polish in my life. I did great with keeping my nails done last year though. 

Quality- I have my eye on a couple of pieces. Looking forward to making the investment. 

Planner- I have to get better at using both of my planners daily. 

Hobby- I would love to still enroll in a class at Michael's or any other craft store. 

Travel often - I actually did a good amount of traveling last year, and I'm super proud of myself. I love to travel, and I'm looking forward to traveling often. 

YouTube- I just have to do better. I have videos recorded. I just have to do better with editing and posting them, and keeping my schedule. 

Language- Learn basic phrases. (brownie points, if I learn a new language.)

Silhouette machine - I haven't used my machine in over a year. Looking forward to using it again. I honestly really do love it. 

Drink more water - I did okay with my daily water goals. However, there is always room for improvement. 

Self-Care Day - I just have to incorporate more self-care days. 

Makeup- I've been doing great with my everyday no-makeup makeup look. I have to throw in a couple of full-face looks here and there. 

Get Dressed Up - I've actually been doing great with this. Looking forward to dressing up more. 

Minimalist- I still would love to keep a minimalist mindset in all areas of my life. 

Do More - This year I just have to incorporate doing more of whatever I like. 

Garden - Last year I didn't anticipate starting my garden. 2021 one of my goals is to spend a lot of time in my garden. 

What are some of your 2021 Goals?

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It's officially the end of the year, and honestly, boy has this been a unique year. Below, I'm sharing an update on my goals for 2020. Due to the current circumstances, I honestly didn't feel like doing some of the stuff, and/or I wasn't able to.

How did you do with your goals for this year?

20 things that I want to Start, Stop, and Splurge On

Read More- Towards the middle of last year, I found an app that I loved. It really has kept me on task with my reading goals. However, it's still very important for me to read and implement what I've learned. 

Date Myself- I started off the year strong last year by dating myself. I have to get back on track with this. My goal is to take myself on a date as often as possible.  

Stop buying just to buy! - Though I still struggle with this. I'm getting better with buying just to buy, especially in the food department. There's no need for me to stock up as much as I do especially when I'm at the grocery store at least once a week. 

Treat me- I still struggle at a time when it comes to buying myself stuff. I have to work on this. However, I'm looking forward to treating myself. 

DSLR- (Learn how to shoot in manual mode) - Towards the end of last year I purchased a new iPhone. Trust me, my old phone was three or four years old, and the battery life was horrible. With that being said. I reach for my phone now which is to be expected. However, it still can not produce the product of a DSLR camera. I still have so much to learn when it comes to my camera. 

Nails Done- To be honest, I really just need more non-toxic nail polish in my life. I did great with keeping my nails done last year though. 

Quality- I have my eye on a couple of pieces. Looking forward to making the investment. 

Planner- I have to get better at using both of my planners daily. 

Hobby- I would love to still enroll in a class at Michael's or any other craft store. 

Travel often - I actually did a good amount of traveling last year, and I'm super proud of myself. I love to travel, and I'm looking forward to traveling often. 

YouTube- I just have to do better. I have videos recorded. I just have to do better with editing and posting them, and keeping my schedule. 

Language- Learn basic phrases. (brownie points, if I learn a new language.)

Silhouette machine - I haven't used my machine in over a year. Looking forward to using it again. I honestly really do love it. 

Drink more water - I did okay with my daily water goals. However, there is always room for importance. 

Self-Care Day - I just have to incorporate more self-care days. 

Makeup- I've been doing great with my everyday no-makeup makeup look. I have to throw in a couple of full-face looks here and there. 

Get Dressed Up - I've actually been doing great with this. Looking forward to dressing up more. 

Minimalist- I still would love to keep a minimalist mindset in all areas of my life. 

 Do More - This year I just have to incorporate doing more of whatever I like. 

What were some of your 2020 Goals?

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The holidays are meant to create memories and to spend time with your loved ones. As a mom, I know the holidays can become pretty stressful. From shopping for friends and family, family gatherings, to volunteering your time. You can be stretched pretty thin, leaving you with little time to actually enjoy those little moments, and time for self-care. A few years ago, I started incorporating self-care days during the holidays. In the past, I would typically host intimate holiday dinners at my home, which takes a lot of time and energy to execute. I started planning at-home spa days before and after those events. I feel so refreshed after my at-home spa day. It’s like having a mini-vacation but at home, whether it's just for the holidays, or you start to incorporate your at-home spa day into your schedule. Below, I'm sharing tips to assist you in creating the perfect self-care day at home.

Tidy

I've learned that it's not fun to have a self-care day if your home isn't tidy. Try to schedule your special day during a time when you clean or have your home professionally cleaned. For example, if you know for the holidays you typically have a cleaning service come a week before Christmas to clean your home, plan your self-care day for the same day in which they come if possible. It's one less thing you have to do, and you really can enjoy your home. If you typically clean Saturday mornings, schedule your at-home spa day for Saturday evening or Sunday morning.

Don't Over Think

It's so easy to overthink the first couple of self-care days, especially when your children are smaller. Once these days start to be on rotation in your schedule, it makes it a lot easier to incorporate them. Don't overthink the small stuff! If you forget something, add it to your at-home spa day list.

Wish List

Create an at-home spa day wish list. There may be products that you would like to try or even a wish list of products that you would like to order or books you would like to immerse yourself in on your special day. Write a "wish list" of items that would make your day extra special.

Plan

As a mom, our schedules can be pretty busy. Look at your calendar, whether you're using a planner or the calendar on your phone. At first glance, you may not see that you have any time for self-care. Perhaps you have to wake up a little early on Sunday to have the perfect spa day at home or go to sleep a little later than usual. Look to see what works for you, and implement those days.

Shopping List

Create a shopping list for your must-haves in order to have the perfect spa day at home. Do you need the perfect exfoliant or body wash? The perfect plush robe? A nail polish kit? Or a good book to conclude your perfect day? Sam's Club is a one-stop-shop for those essentials, especially during the holidays.

Multi-task

While you’re shopping for your loved ones, pick up a few essentials. Unilever Personal Care brands at Sam's Club has so many amazing brands from Dove, Nexxus®, to SheaMoisture®. Some of my favorite products to pick up at Sam's Club are the Dove Exfoliating Body Polish and the SheaMoisture® 100% Virgin Coconut Oil Body Wash. It’s like being on vacation every time you take a shower. It leaves my skin soft, nourished and gives a luxuriously clean feel. Dove Exfoliating Body Polish nourishes your skin as it exfoliates, leaving my skin smooth and refreshed. I love that it buffs away dry skin while nourishing the new layer underneath.

This is also the perfect time to create an at-home spa day basket for a loved one. One for me, one for you! You can purchase your at-home spa day essentials in-store or online at Sam's Club. They have the option to order online and/or pickup in-store. Plus, they’re currently offering $5 off when you purchase two Unilever Personal Care brands (Dove, Nexxus®, and SheaMoisture® - Participating products)

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Last year I spent my first-holiday single, and boy was it an eye-opener. I think it’s so easy to give advice to friends and loved ones about being single during the holidays until you’re in that position. Trust me, I would always encourage my friends/family to enjoy their single years, and pretty much live life up. Boy has the tables turned, those same tips I was once given. I’m taking myself. When you love the holidays it can be hard when you would love to spend that time with the “love of your life”. This is also engagement season, so left and right you’re going to see posts on social media about people getting engaged. Though you want to be happy for them. It honestly can be a little overwhelming. Whether you want to get married or not. Have children or don’t or simply just want to be a support system for your single friends/family. I’m sharing tips below, on how to survive the holidays, and embrace your singleness. This post is also primarily for people who are not looking for someone to make them happy. I believe happiness is an inside job.

Take a Solo Trip

Though it’s currently a pandemic, I’m hoping someone will read this post years from now, and is able to travel. Let’s face it. Not everyone lives in a hotspot, and some people live in prime travel destinations. Do your due diligence and book a trip. Travel to your favorite destination. Remember your piece of mind is so much more important. Especially, if you plan on attending a toxic family gathering.

Tradition

This is the perfect time to create your own tradition. Have you ever wanted to see drive through a light show on Christmas Eve? Spend the day making homemade gifts or binge-watching your favorite shows? This is the perfect time to create those traditions.

Communicate

Be honest. Share with your friends and family how you’re feeling. Let them know that the holidays are rough for you being single. Communication is key.

Seek Help

I’m a strong believer in seeking help. Your friends are not your therapist. Do the research and find a therapist to assist you with getting through the holidays. This can be such a wonderful way to not have to hold back on what’s on your mind.

Volunteer

Volunteering is a great way to give back during the holiday season. It’s honestly a win-win situation because you’re spending time assisting those in need.

Journal
I've been journaling for as long as I can rmemeber. Spend some time to journal and reflect on what you want. This is a great way to do a brain dump as well.

To whom this may apply to...

This message is for those who have been in a serious relationship. Though, I know these next couple of months are going to be hard. Think about what it was like Being unhappy in a relationship for the holidays.