Simply Tasheena

For the last couple of years, I've been sharing with you guys my overall goals for the following year. I post this information on the blog for several reasons, and one is to keep myself accountable for my goals throughout the year. This year has taken so many twists and turns, and honestly, I didn't see a lot of it coming. This year I really worked hard on my reading goal, and I've already had excited my expectations. I might even share some of the books I read this year with you guys. I've also had been getting better at “just not buying to buy” I really started implementing that during the after Christmas sale last year. It's so easy to put things in your chart when they're 90% off or simply on sale. Below, I've crossed out the goals that I've really enforced in 2019. I still have so many areas in my life that I have to get better at. Do you have any goals?

Update: 19 Things that I want to Start, Stop and Splurge On

Read More- I did horrible reading this year. Not going to sugar coat it. I just have to get better at making time to read.

Date Myself- This year was the first time that I consistently dated myself. Even when I was single I never dated myself this much. I love every minute of it. I explored so many new places, and just had an overall good time.

Stop buying just to buy! - I did great with this in 2018, I want to continue to not buy just to buy. 

Treat myself- I still struggle when treating myself, however, I jump for everyone else. I guess it's hard because I've stated that I want to stop buying to buy. It would be nice to treat myself though.

DSLR- (Learn how to shoot in manual mode) My photography has improved, however, I still don't know how to shot in manual mode. 

Nails Done- I want to continue keeping my nails done. I did really great with it this year, and I want to continue with this routine in 2019. 

Quality- I want to invest in a couple of high-end pieces for my wardrobe. I have to really narrow down the pieces I want and maybe create a buying schedule. 

Planner- Spend more time using my planner, checking it daily, and really using it in depth. 

Hobby- I didn't attend any classes this year, however, I'm still open to the idea. I love crafting and baking, and I just have to take time out for me. 

Travel often - I didn't travel as much as I wanted to this year. I would love to travel more. 

YouTube- I just did horrible with YouTube this year, not sure what's up with me. I just have to do better. 

Language- Learn the basic phrases. (brownie points, if I learn a new language.)

Silhouette machine - Mid-year, last year I rearranged our home, and typically around this time of year, I use my machine a lot. However, I really do love using my silhouette and I have to get back into the habit of using more often. 

Drink more water - For some reason, I struggle with drinking a lot of water during the colder months. I have to be more consistent with drinking water no matter what time of year it is. 

Self-Care Day - This year I did pretty well with incorporating a self-care day. I know this wasn't mentioned in my last year. However, I really love having self-care days, and I want to try to be more consistent with having them. 

Makeup- I've noticed that I've done well with doing my makeup, However, I haven't really done any dramatic looks. Not sure what's up with that, however, I really do enjoy playing in makeup. 

Get Dressed Up - I noticed that when I'm dressed up my entire mood changes. I have to get better at being overdressed. I used to be really good about this. 

Minimalist- I want to continue to purchase what I need and all areas of my life.

What are some of your 2019 Goals?

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Christmas is one of my favorite holidays. I love everything about it, from the decor to the yummy treats that are made. Just everything about it is pretty amazing. However, the same joy that I have for the holidays, really stress people out. I've learned so much by trial and error. It's never too late to make this year run as smooth as possible. below I'm sharing 8 Tips for a Stress-Free Holiday.

8 Tips for a Stress-Free Holiday

Plan Ahead

I can not tell you the importance of planning ahead of time whether you're hosting or a guest at a holiday gathering. If the person is hosting an event doesn't ask you to bring anything, offer. Why because if you don't you're going to be the first person that the contact when they need something last minute. From creating your shopping list in advance, create your menu plan, know what gifts your purchasing and for whom. Plan, plan, plan, you can't over plan.

Learn to Say NO!

Okay, you may not want to hear that. However, it's so important to learn how to say no. I get it, it's the holidays. However, you deserve to enjoy the holidays too. If you know it's going to be too much for you, learn how to say no. "No, I can't bake a cake. However, I can pick one up from the store on my way."

Create a budget

I am huge on creating a budget for the holiday season. I wrote several posts on it. It's so easy to get carried away with spending. Know what your budget is, and stick to it.

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff

I have to be honest with you. I'm still learning not to sweat the small stuff. I remember my first year making a red velvet cake. I forgot to purchase buttermilk. I was mid-way of making the cake and noticed that I was out of milk... I noticed that my local pharmacy was open and I decided to make a quick run to purchase some milk. Long story short. It wasn't the end of the world. I purchased the milk and googled how to make homemade buttermilk.

Buy what you can't make or Create

I love Martha Stewart. However, I know that I'm not her. Outsource whatever you can. I know those DIY projects sound like an amazing idea. However, be realistic with yourself. Instead of procrastinating and waiting until the last-minute has someone make or create it for you. I have no shame in buying pre-made desserts, and sides. My family loves candy yams and they are my least favorite to make and take a ton of time. Guess what I do? I purchase the pre-made version. Learn to not sweat the small stuff.

Prep As Much As You Can

Typically when I'm hosting a holiday dinner I create a list of To-do's, a shopping list as well as a list of everything that I need to work on that week. I prep as much as I can days before like place cards, menus, etc. I also make sure that I have everything that I need. I cook all of my desserts a day or two in advance and I try my best to make everything else the night before.

Ask For Help

This is something that I struggle a lot with. I really hate bothering people so I tend to take everything on. When we typically have Christmas or New Years' dinner. I make everything. I started asking people to bring something. Food, drinks, dessert, cutlery. Anything helps! Even if you're asking friends/family to assist you to be on the lookout for a special gift that you have to purchase. It doesn't hurt to ask for help.

Enjoy

We get so wrapped up in the holidays and making sure that everything and everyone is okay. Don't forget to actually enjoy the upcoming holidays. Plan some "me time" and self-care dates for yourself. Remember that you're no good to anyone else if you're a mess and barely functioning.